Posted September 1, 2009on:
here are some learnings i got from watching the vid on how to bring the love back .
“we dont talk anymore.”
In any type of relationship, be it a romantic or a corporate relationship, communication is very vital, two-way communication, that is. both parties should both take time to listen to what the other has to say. learnings come when we listen. when we listen, we would know what the other person really wants and needs, and therefore our efforts would not be futile.
Communication and relationships become epic failures when only one does the talking and the other one fakes the listening.
“you’re not behaving like you love me, it’s not genuine.”
in any type of relationship, it is important to let your partners feel how important they are, thet their opinions are heard, that their efforts are appreciated, and that they are valued genuinely. it is important to be consistent to what we say and do so not to create confusion.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
“i’ve changed and you haven’t.”
in any type of relationship, change is inevitable. there would be hard times when one seems to have a hard time keeping up. you should help each other mature and change for the better. you should learn to enjoy doing things together.
the key is growing together.
for OrCom practitioners:
if there are two things we can consider as our mantra in our OrCom 152 class, these are to embrace change and to listen to what our target audience would say.
we should never assume, we must listen to our target audinece well so that we would know what platforms or types of media we should put our efforts in.
two-way communication is the key.